Are You Just A Booty Call?

By Christy Goldstein. Posted on Aug 2nd 2012.

Is he a boyfriend or a booty call? Here's how to tell.

It's the weekend, and you know you will get that text message or phone call from him, and you don't know whether to be pleased or angry. I am talking about the "booty call" or the faux relationship; he never calls or texts you during the week, and when you call or text him, he never replies. 10 Rules For Texting And Dating

But, as soon as the weekend rolls around, it is like clockwork and he texts or calls you exactly when the bars close. And, if he doesn't, you know you are being replaced for that evening, which infuriates you even more.

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When he is with you, he tells you everything you want to hear ... that he loves being with you and he has so much fun with you. But he is only with you once or twice a month; this does not make a relationship and you will never change him.

No matter what you do, even if you never text or call him during the week, and you play his game, you will never get him to commit to you. This guy is who I call the non-committal because he likes to play the field and he will continue to play you until you realize that he only wants sex from you.

I had this guy in my life recently and unfortunately for him, I am a bigger player than him. When he texted me to get together, I never responded. Some men like this need a wake-up call, and when they get someone who is similar to them, such as myself, they don't know how to react. So, this guy will continue to contact me, because I am unattainable to him, which never happens for him. 5 Signs You Are A Dating Snob

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But, ladies who are in this predicament, please know you are worth it for a man to date you more than a night or two a month. So, if there is a guy in your life doing this to you, do your best to cut your losses and move on from him. You do deserve someone to take you out to dinners during the week and on the weekend! 4 Dating Mistakes You're Probably Making Right Now

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