It is not that hard for a guy or a girl to text or call someone every week to say, "Hey, how is your week going?" So for her to think that this is acceptable is beyond me. He doesn't want her, he wants to play the game with her and he knows he can. So he continues to do so. During the weeks she doesn't hear from him I honestly think he is with someone else or at the very least trying to be with someone else. I feel bad for her and my other friends who have such low self esteem that if one man that they like does not like them they think no one will. It is sad that whatever I say it won't matter because they are going to do what they want too. No matter how much I trash this guy and tell her that he is not right for her she justifies it and says well it is different than two years ago, because he is calling more instead of calling once every two months. Well, yes that is a little bit different, but if he is still not calling when he should and waits for weeks on end than it is not different, it is the same!
I wish I could shake my friends and say, "You are so much better than this!" But unless they believe it themselves no matter what I say or what advice I give they will not listen. They have to see it for themselves. And I know it will end in a heartbreak and I was only trying to prevent that which unfortunately for me and her it will end in "I told you so!"
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