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Tips For Women To Keep Their Marriage Strong

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Make a man happy and watch him treat you like a princess!

When a couple have been together for quite some time, they often tend to lose sight of a supposedly mutual goal to make each other happy. This is a sad yet common reality these days. Then again, you have the power to change all this and using these tips for women for a good marriage just wait and see how your man responds. With the right pieces of advice and the desire to keep the man in your life happy, you will definitely be able to make a difference in your romantic relationship with your husband.

There are actually a lot of things you can do to look after you man's happiness. These things do not necessarily involve money and are in fact easy to accomplish, for as long as you put your mind to it. Here are some examples of relationship advice that may be of help to you and your love relationship.

# 1: Be yourself.

You have to accept the fact that your man liked and eventually loved you just the way you are. Therefore, it would be unnecessary to try to change a lot of things about yourself, except maybe over the years you may have become more complacent and not putting in so much effort as you could, this is not uncommon in a marriage after a period of being together. Aside from that, there is really no reason to make an effort to change everything about yourself.

Bear in mind that trying to change yourself drastically may have a number of negative effects not only on your man, but on the romantic relationship as well,he married you for who you are and not someone you are trying to be. So go on being your genuine self while taking on board these tips for women for a good marriage and watch your man become the happiest man on Earth.

# 2: Don't put him on such a short leash.

Know that, just like you, your man needs a little space and time alone to think or just to unwind with friends. You know how much us women like to get together and talk and have time on our own, so why shouldn't he? Whatever he chooses to do with his free time you should acknowledge and accept it and be happy for him having interests outside of the home. It can make a very boring man if all he does is work.

Then again if his choices of activity tend to lean more on the possibility of seeing other woman, then you would have everyright to address the situation. But apart from that scenario and several other relationship related issues, you should not be checking up on him all the time. Trust along with honesty is the most important factor in the success of your marriage.

In addition, as you allow him the time to relax and have time to himself, you can also make use of the free time to catch up on your reading or just spend some time alone. You will soon find out that your husband's absence can really make you heart grow fonder.

# 3: Avoid becoming like his Mum.

Being thoughtful and caring is a lot different form nagging. Men, in fact, hate it whenever they are nagged, it can make them feel like little boys and being told off by their Mum's. All the same, you also need to be aware of how you speak to him and the behaviour you tend to show him. For instance, if you notice that you tend to critizise or are sarcastic in your ways, then you better look to address this in yourself.Their are three things a man wants and that is to be acknowledged for everything he does, even the little things, to be adored and to be appreciated. If you can give your man these three great things you will definantly make him feel 10 feet tall.

# 4: Listen.

Your man can never get enough of this. He will probably appreciate it if you start listening to things that he has to say regardless of how unimportant or insignificant they seem to you at times. He will certainly appreciate you more if he knows you are listening to him and care about all he has to say.If their is a particular topic which really does not interest you then share with him your feelings and let him know that most of the time you love to hear what he has to say but somethings are just not of interest to you, the same as their are things you do which he would probalby not find of interest. Just be open and honest with each other on this point.

# 5: Buy him practical gifts.

Men are not usually into things like candles, decorative items, typically girly things. Men are much more practical and logical and usually want things that they can make use of or consume. Books, tools, and subscriptions/tickets are just a few of the examples of appropriate presents. Just cooking him his favourite meal can make him happy. It is not always about spending lots of money on expensive gifts,

# 6: Just ask him straightforwardly.

In any intimate relationship, there is no better way to know how to make your man happy than to actually ask him. Hopefully, your husband would be honest enough to actually supply you with helpful answers. With this knowledge you will be better equipped to make your man happy and for him to start treating you like a princess. What you give out comes back ten fold as the saying goes.

These are just a few great tips for women for a good marriage and I am sure after talking to your husband you will come up with many more.

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