How Money Can Be The Root Of Evil In A Marriage

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How Money Can Be The Root Of Evil In A Marriage
Money is a very sensitive topic when it comes to relationships!

One of the many reasons of fights in a marriage is around finances and couples so often are unaware how to address the marriage and money . In a romantic relationship, no matter how much the couples love each other, it is not impossible for them to have quarrels regarding money.

Unfortunately, there are times when things get out of a hand. A simple disagreement regarding financial issues can turn into something that could destroy the marriage. Here are some of the ways how money can cause problems in mariage.

Man and Woman

Biologically and physically speaking, a man and a woman are different from each other. Psychologically speaking, a man thinks differently than a woman. A man and a woman have so many aspects that differ from one another. Because of these differences, money problems can arise. Men are very logical and women are emotional creatures.

A man and a woman have different points of view when it comes to money. A man sees money in a very different way than a woman does. He usually thinks of money as a source of confidence boost or a self-esteem boost and providing for his family. For a woman though, money is usually seen as a source of security in times of trouble because the number one thing a woman needs is certainty from her man. Because of this difference, which some couples are not even aware of can cause arguments.

Money Does Not Grow From Trees

It is usually the norm to let the man take all the responsibilities especially when it comes to financial responsibilities. This can be from purchasing a very expensive item to an extravagant dinner to a simple ice cream on hot sunny day. This can make the man live up to the reputation of being a gentleman.

But sometimes he has to realize that money does not grow from trees. You need to work hard to earn money. And when the time comes that financial problems are at your doorstep, arguments and fights come along with it. What used to be a very sweet and intimate relationship becomes a battleground for harsh words and sometimes physical violence.

Avoiding The Money Topic

Money is a very sensitive topic when it comes to relationships and you have to be aware that marriage and money go hand in hand. That is why some people try to avoid it hoping that they would be able to avoid fights over money. But avoiding the topic of money is just like running and trying to hide from the inevitable. And no matter how much you run and hide, it will someday find you.

No Co-operation

When only one person in the marriage is involved with money matters, problems may arise. This usually happens when the not so financially involved person is caught off guard by their financial situation like their credit card limit has exceeded or items being purchased without his or her knowledge. So in marriage, it is very important that both parties have to partake in financial matters. Discussing financial matters together will also be a very big help in keeping the financial war at bay. Consult each other before doing any purchases and plan for your monthly expenditure and savings.

Overspending

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