Ok, the next thing to do is to figure out what you like most about your appearance. Is it your hair? Your hands? Your legs? Once you feel confident in the office, I want you to play up that part of yourself that you really love and shine a little light on it. If you love accessories, boost your sexiness at work through a signature or a statement necklace that makes your new, confident self stand out just a little bit more and gives you a shot of self-esteem. If you love your legs, break out the very sexy shoes that make you look tall and amazing and wear them with pride.
Take one area of your appearance and just enjoy it. Play it up, sizzle a little and have some fun. One thing isn't overwhelming. It doesn't take away from the professional you, it just adds a certain sparkle. Keep it to one area and enjoy the feeling of knowing that you look great!
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One last tip. I said that it doesn't matter what suit you wear; it just matters how you wear it. However, I also think that whatever is under the suit adds a lot of inner confidence and sexp to your walk, and it is entirely appropriate since no one in your office can see it. A fun lingerie set, a cute bra, whatever gives you a little sass and secret goes a long way in bringing that extra something to the office ... but since no one can see it, it's entirely appropriate!
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