When you're not focused on "where things are going", you give each other the freedom to enjoy each other's company and make smart relationship decisions. You also become very attractive in the process, because a guy will sense that you're not making him the be-all and end-all of your life. And that's when the right guy will feel motivated to take things to the next level with you.
Until this happens, keep dating other guys to keep yourself from falling into the "instant relationship" trap. If the two of you really do have a meaningful connection, trust me that he'll make sure he gets to know you more and more.
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