What He's Really Thinking During Your First Few Dates

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Ever wonder what a man really thinks during those early encounters with you? Get the inside story...

What you really want to do is take a cue from guys and use those first few dates like they do — as a fun learning process to meet different kinds of people and spend time with them in a no-pressure way. That means you don't expect that a man's not dating anyone else or that he needs to call you at a certain time. And you don't assume you're spending every weekend together, either.
When you're not focused on "where things are going", you give each other the freedom to enjoy each other's company and make smart relationship decisions. You also become very attractive in the process, because a guy will sense that you're not making him the be-all and end-all of your life. And that's when the right guy will feel motivated to take things to the next level with you.
Until this happens, keep dating other guys to keep yourself from falling into the "instant relationship" trap. If the two of you really do have a meaningful connection, trust me that he'll make sure he gets to know you more and more.
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