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How to Be More Than Just A Fling To Him

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How to Be More Than Just A Fling To Him
Make him see you as the “cool girl” he just has to get.
  1. Cool girls choose not to complain or talk about things for too long that are not other people's responsibility or impossible for anyone to solve given the current situation
  2. Cool girls bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations to create an experience that men will want to have again and again
  3. Cool girls are willing to go with the flow when it comes to social things but make assertions when they have opinions and ideas
  4. Cool girls have options and things to do that keep them satisfied so they don't feel like they're left out if they're not invited to something (And even if they do, they certainly don't complain about it or even mention it - they FIND something to do that makes them happy.)
  5. Cool girls prefer that a man makes up his own mind; they don't try to make a man do something
  6. Cool girls DO know that the way they feel and talk about themselves is how men will feel about them

So, are YOU a "cool girl?"
Are you the kind of woman that men are "naturally" drawn to and want to be with... for more than just a fling?
And do you get how to say all the right things verbally and non-verbally to let him instantly know that you're the kind of girl he'd like to connect with and fall in love with?

If you’ve ever wanted to know what a man really thinks about dating and commitment, subscribe to Christian’s free e-newsletter. He’ll reveal the kind of qualities a man can’t help falling for in a woman and what it takes to make him give up his “single” freedom for the love of just one woman…for the long term.

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