Irresistible Attitude #2: "I'd leave a man before I allow unacceptable behavior."
This woman won't stay in a relationship that's abusive, degrading, or morally questionable. She also won't put up with bad behavior from a man. Integrity and trust are important to her, and she lets him know that.
The cornerstone of this attitude is a healthy sense of self-esteem. In a relationship, the first person you must take care of is you. Know your boundaries so that you can recognize when someone crosses them – and let him know when something is not acceptable to you.
Irresistible Attitude #3: "I wouldn't keep a man from doing the healthy, personal things he enjoys, or let my own fears or limitations stand in his way."
She knows that her man is an adult who has the right and freedom to make his own choice. She understands that the more she tries to restrict him, the less he's going to feel open, free and empowered when he’s with her. She respects his need to pursue his goals and dreams.
A smart woman gives a man the “rope” he needs to be himself. She recognizes that when each person in a relationship nourishes his or her particular passions, that the relationship also becomes more interesting and passionate.
When you embody these irresistible attitudes, a man is much less likely to "get weird" on you when you let him know how you're feeling, because he’ll be craving a meaningful and deep connection with you as well. These attitudes tell him that you are the kind of woman who has a strong sense of what she needs and that she is not looking to him to make her happy. She takes responsibility for her own happiness – and this is infinitely attractive to a man.
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