The driving force in relationships is our story about our self. Stories consist of beliefs. Beliefs are learned in childhood. We can examine our beliefs and we can decide that we are deserving of a relationship that is nourishing for our souls. There will be many twists and turns along the way. You will have a strong pull to return to the old ways like hooking up with untrustworthy people to prove that you are unlovable. Just know you can change if you observe, examine your story and choose to make another decision rather keep choosing the same option and hoping you will get different result.
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