I am not saying that you must be in perfect shape. What I am saying, however, is that you will attract a person who is your balance, someone who has the same or different issues in the same proportions. If you are needy, you will attract neediness. If you have intimacy issues you will attract someone who is shut down. So it is in your best interests to undertake a personal redevelopment plan prior to looking for a relationship. Be the best you that you can be to offer to another person. This seems to be a great way to start the new year. Funny, how it usually happens that someone who has been taking extraordinary care of themselves and not looking for a relationship suddenly finds him/herself in love.
Relationship coaching is life coaching. Life becomes extraordinary when we discover that being absolutely committed to taking care of ourselves, leads to abundance in every aspect of our lives.
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You will find that when you truly connect with someone and love who that person is, he will become gorgeous to you. The main thing that you women must do is to be straight. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Ask directly for what you want. Acknowledge him. Place your order and then appreciate any movement in the direction that you want to go. I still believe that the most difficult challenge for a woman is to maintain the self-esteem to fully express her appetite.
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