Maintaining a relationship can be rather complicated, especially when both parties have a career to take care of at the same time. Although we all seem to have embraced the idea of modern romance wherein couples hardly find the time to spend together, many of us are still hoping that the quality of a relationship doesn't have to be compromised for the blossoming of a couple's career.
Below are some proven tips on how a couple could maintain an intimate relationship while building their respective careers:
1. Keep boundaries.
It is very important for couples to take the time to talk about their own expectations from each other, particularly on such issues as work schedule, what time both will be home, and other things related to their jobs. You want to have an agreement in terms of what day both of you will be free so you could do things that couples enjoy.
2. Avoid going to bed angry.
There's nothing good that results from not settling conflicts before going to bed. If you go to sleep without talking it over, you'll wake up feeling drained and with a heavy heart. Don't let misunderstandings last long because it will certainly affect your productivity at work. Talking about your issues with each other is very healthy not only for your relationship but also for your performance at work as well.
3. Show support for each other.
You may not be interested in what your partner does at work, but you don't necessarily have to make him or her feel that way. You, personally, would want to feel that your partner is supporting you unconditionally, so this is what you must do in return.
4. Identify who does what house chores.
When at home, you would both feel like you want to enjoy the free time that you have. However, there are responsibilities in the household that needs to be taken care of between the two of you. What's best is for both of you to agree on who should take on the specific chores at home. This way, you both can be efficient and there will be no complaining from both parties.
5. Make career decisions together.
There will come a time that one of you may encounter problems at work or with his or her career. When this happens, important decisions must be made, of course. In this case, decision making doesn't have to be done alone or individually. If one of you is thinking about changing careers, getting the advice of the other is a nice way of showing respect. This can make the relationship strong because you will be building trust for each other.
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