Why Booty Calls Keep True Love Away

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Why Booty Calls Keep True Love Away
Does your ex still have a key to your apartment and your heart? Girl, this love sabotage has to go!

Even though you have your vision board and are saying affirmations and you are claiming that you are ready for love, you are radiating loneliness, disappointment and emptiness on an energetic level.  And girl, you have to do something about that.

A raging river of ill will toward men in general and romance in particular, rushing through your emotions, is dominating your choices, your language, your mood and your reactions to life circumstances. It controls your love life by attracting men who have raging rivers of their own.

These relationships are certain to fall apart when the pain each person feels is blamed, consciously or unconsciously on the other. Then you get into a vicious cycle and the river rages stronger and stronger.

You already have every thing you need to feel the deep magnetism that assures you that you are loved. The power of past love and disappointment is the block needing your attention.  You don't need to climb out of your tower on your own, trust yourself to choose someone to help you.  True Love is possible for you.

Knowing you are ok and everything is progressing along at its perfect rate is hard, Rapunzel, I know you are tired of waiting. Your expectations can easily get inflated setting yourself up for disappointment. 

Tell yourself things like this: “My life is unfolding at the exact right pace.” “I am learning to see good things that are coming my way…even if they are tiny.” “I want to feel happy”. “Being happy feels really good.” Even if it doesn’t feel like it is doing any good. It is. Your ears need to hear your voice carrying this positivity to your brain.

Once you radiate your authentic self, free of any fears of criticism or ridicule, you’re there. There is someone out there who is looking for exactly that….your real and true adorable self. He is out there, Sweet Rapunzel, don’t compromise what is most precious to you to stay with a man. Be a soul mate to your own Soul first, then you are ready to be open to Your True Love, you will feel it clearly.

Celebrity Saboteur:  Janet Jackson: Tender Rapunzel

Wonder if you are a Rapunzel?  Maybe you are a Sleeping Beauty or a Snow White.  Or perhaps Scarlett O'Hara is more your style.  Check out how YOU sabotage your relationships with this no-cost Sabotage Assessment:  http://budurl.com/lovesabotage
 

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