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Are Your Soulmate Dating Signals Switched To "Off"?

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Painful past relationships may cause your heart to withdraw and even shut down to new love.

When I met Tina (name changed) she had me rolling with horrible and hilarious dating stories from her over 50 online dates over the last 14 months.  Out of that string of hopefuls, only a handful got a second date. Where are the guys they show on the commercials??

Do you hate online dating? I am not such a fan either because the men who show up don't match their pictures or profiles, just sayin'. How about hanging out in bars, clubs, gyms and even churches ... I bet a part of you is tired of the chase for a soulmate.

So what's up? How can a gorgeous human being like yourself not find a reasonably normal, attractive (to you) partner with a job and a mature attitude about life. Is that too much to ask?

What if there was a switch inside that is turned off? What if your power to attract a soulmate is actually switched off? Intriguing, no? And more importantly, if it is turned off, how did it get that way?

It makes sense, doesn't it? Wouldn't that explain why the potential partners you meet aren't even close to your ideal? A broken heart in your past just might be the culprit.

There are easy ways to flip the inner switch and turn on your soulmate attraction. If you are attracting the opposite of what you want, your soulmate switch may be set to OFF. If it IS set to OFF, there is a good reason for that. For more, click here:

Catherine Behan is a Dating, Sex and Intimacy Coach practicing in San Diego, CA. For a free 20 minute chat to talk about manifesting your Last First Date, click here.

This article was originally published at Reprinted with permission from the author.


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