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How To Get Over Your Ex And Make Room for New Love

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Heartbreak, Love

Is the ghost of an ex haunting your soulmate search? Here's how to spook them out for good!

Last week I was talking to Maryanne. I asked her, "How many significant breakups have you had?"

"Let's see," she said thoughtfully. "It would be easier to say their names. There was Bill, Kenny, George, Jim, Kerry, Jon, another Jim and Jeff."

"And do you think you are over all of them?" I asked. "Nothing left? No whisper of abandonment, betrayal or rejection?"

"No, I am good," she replied.

100% of the people who contact me for help finding their soulmate have one thing in common. Each one has at least one ex whose behavior during the breakup hurt so deeply that their heart is partially shut down. Maryanne was no different.

After I asked her a few questions, she remembered one ex in particular who wasn't quite as easy to let go of. Interestingly, it wasn't even one of they guys she listed. By time we finished speaking, she realized that the betrayal and abandonment she still felt over that guy was still smouldering in her mind and heart.

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Catherine Behan is a Dating, Sex and Intimacy Coach practicing in San Diego, CA. For a free 20 minute chat to talk about manifesting your Last First Date, click here.

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