"I am tired of the Law of Attraction."
"I do everything Abraham says and I am still single."
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"I am SO tired of being alone."
Sound familiar? It can be searingly difficult to keep the faith with you are working with the Universal Laws. The books, audios and coaching programs all promise great results, so what's up? Why can't finding love be easier?
I hear you. Law of Attraction SOUNDS good when you hear it, doesn't it? If you can learn how to magnetize yourself to love, your perfect match will 'magically' appear and your happily ever after is yours at last. Are you rolling your eyes? Great...keep reading!
There is a missing piece to the puzzle and if you are rolling your eyes....you are closer to the missing piece than you think! The one ingredient to manifesting success that flies under the radar and stays out of your view is.....
Are you ready for this? The very frustration you are feeling is the missing link! As you get more and more clear about what kind of relationship you want, you are actually stirring the pot of your past disappointments. This is natural and normal!!
Your brain has been conditioned to create thoughts contrary to loving connection. You read right. Your own brain chemistry is working against you and the only clue you have is your frustration. Why is that a problem?
Simple...Law of Attraction gurus teach you night and day that you must keep our vibration up at all costs, that you must place yourself in the mindset and mood of a happily married soul mate before you can be magnetic enough to have him show up. There is only one problem with that.
In order to create the feeling of mission accomplished before the mission is accomplished is to allow the negative thoughts have a voice. Depression, despair, anger, frustration, sadness, grief and loneliness are all real energies produced by our brains in response to life drama and trauma.
If you don't recondition your brain to see these events differently....you are stuck in the waiting room forever!!!
Should you just give up? NO!! Your negative feelings are controlling your lackluster love life and there is a safe way to express them. Worrying that you will attract more negative results if you allow yourself to be negative is a trap! You must find away to change your thoughts about the painful past and retraining your brain is the fastest way to get that job done.
So what can you do?
Here are 5 Steps to Keeping Your Faith in The Law of Attraction While You Are Waiting for Love:
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1. Don't Deny Your Feelings: Seems simple, but is so important. When you are feeling blue or find yourself in a funk, don't be too quick to run from those feelings. You are frustrated and I don't blame you.
Let your feelings about your singleness have a voice. Now, you don't want to go venting all over the place and speak all about it, but writing a list of the people who have disappointed you in love is a great step!