If you are tired of the manifesting process all together, this is an extremely powerful time for you. According to zoemoonastrology.com, starting fresh and reconnecting with someone you used to be close to can Usher you into a whole new level of emotional expression. This can only help you in the romance department. It is also time for something to be "eclipsed" out that is pruned away.
You will know which bad habit, procrastinated task or grudge is the optimal to let go of by time the Full Moon comes, two weeks from now.
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"Some of your relationships are under a lot of strain right now and weak spots can become really obvious. Don't be surprised that there may be sadness in the realizations happening right now," says Dipali Desai at CelestialSpaceAstrlogyBlog.com, "There can be a part of a person who doesn't want to grow up, and the Gemini New Moon can trigger manic thinking and over analyzing with the rational mind which fights inner growth."
What does all this mean to you and your Soul Mate Attraction Plan? Let me break it down to 5 Powerful Steps:
1. Let The Past Characters Show Themselves--You might think that you are completely over the jokers, players and losers of the past but are you sure? Are you completely positive there is not one itty bitty grudge lingering over your ex's bad behavior? You may not actually get a phone call from an ex this week but have you dreamed of one? Did you hear "your song" for the first time in forever? Be alert.
2. People who love you are feeling this with you--Your friends and family are worried about you right now. The vibration of this time of letting go of grudges so you can find love is powerful. The people who love you most are the ones who know how much you want to find love. Reach out. Ask for love, light, prayer..whatever lifts your spirits. This is your inner work though, don't share more than you need to. Just tell your supporters you are in low spot and you need love.
3. Planting Heartfelt Intentions in This New Moon Energy Is SO Smart-- The New Moon is a time of planting. Planting seeds of your desires into the void and the safety of the loving nurturing energy that is the Universe.
When you are choosing your intentions this month, take the focus of your partner and put it on you. What trait in YOU can be strengthened so that you are the ideal match for him?
The Gemini New Moon holds these areas of life in its energy, according to New Moon Astrology by Susan Spiller, Learning, Communication Skills, Calming Mental Anxiety and Social Ease. Which of these resonate with you? Create an intention that empowers one of these life areas. You want to magnetize yourself to love and this is the fastest way.
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4. Create A Ritual-- Lessons learned from our grandmother's grandmothers sift through as sealing a Universal Wish or Desire with a ritual always feels delish. I host New Moon Rituals and I would love to have you participate. I can't emphasize enough the power of this time to really dig out ancient grudges and get yourself free to risk falling in love again.