3. Personal Passion: Is he busy and fulfilled with a productive hobby or career? If you fall for a guy who is on fire about his own life and still takes time to prioritize you, that is a great sign. The Universe may be able to create happily ever afters with broke unemployed guys, after all, nothing is impossible, but do you really want that? Chemistry with a man with no income may be hot but is rarely the real deal.
4. “He’s Not My Type:” Countless love at first sighters....the couples that claimed they knew very early on that their one was the one say the same thing: “We met in the most surprising way. I never expected to be with someone like him, he’s not my type.” When you are attracted to someone outside your “type,” pay attention.
5. The Time Temperature: Sometime in the 2 to 3 month range, take a reading of your relationship. How hot is the chemistry? Has it changed for either one of you? If you guys are cooling off here’s what to check. How fascinated are you with each other? You want to watch for signs that he is “in to you” outside of sexual attraction.
Curiosity and fascination are two powerful indicators that this is the real deal, especially when the first rushes of chemistry start to pale.
Crushes always melt you in the beginning and then break your heart in the end. In between crush and heartbreak there are a lot of experiences waiting for you. Love at first sight experiences can rock your world and some are the real deal.
If you are in the midst of that roller coaster ride right now, buckle your seatbelt and hang on, have fun and enjoy how it unfolds. There really is nothing like a mind numbing crush. Just check in at that 2 to 3 month point and be honest with what is happening. If he is still into you....that's the best sign of all!
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