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How To Focus On You

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How To Focus On You

The struggle that we all are experiencing right now is life “forcing” us into unconditional love. When we are anything but unconditional love, life gets unbearable. The people around us get unbearable. We get unbeareable.

How did Jesus surrender? That’s the million dollar question.

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He did it by consciously staying connected with his divine being. With his own presence with that which is God in him.

And how did he do that?

Rather than going up through his head ( I think this is what most of us do when we meditate or pray) he jumped as deep as he could into his very own self. Right in the middle, right were your solar plexus is and your heart. It’s an act like jumping off a skyscraper and just falling or diving deeper and deeper.

He knew to do this, the moment dissonance, the tune in his soul, arose. The dissonance arises as soon as we move away and out of our true being. He practiced and practiced and practiced and never stopped.

We are all asked to be Jesus right now. And we are given many opportunities to practice. We are asked to practice to hear the dissonance of our soul. To literally hear the tune and to not mistake the mind chatter or our circumstances for its cause. The mind chatter will always be there, the world and its ups and downs and the people too. But when we focus our attention on the tune of our soul, we can immediately bring ourselves back into harmony without having to react and cause harm. We get back into harmony by diving deep until we hear our heart rejoice and feel our being and ourselves and the world as unconditional love. When we do this every encounter, every human being, and every situation is transformed by us.

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When we tune ourselves and when we align ourselves, we create the world that we are so longing for.

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