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How To Beat Anger And Make Relationship Conflict Work For You

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How To Beat Anger And Make Relationship Conflict Work For You
YourTango Experts teach us how to get to the root of conflict and fight against anger.

Now combine those two statement into one. It may sound like:
Well, although, he makes me feel stupid at times, he does appreciate me too.
There are times that she treats me like a child, but she appreciates me too.

By fleshing out the truth behind your feelings, you can reduce their intensity and are less likely to lash out at your partner because of them. For more information on how to do this, you can pick up Mind Over Mood by Christine Padesky.
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Be the Smart Wife's Carin Goldstein, MFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Los Angeles and the creator/host of the popular video blog Be The Smart Wife.

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