Never Say This To A Man Unless You Want To Lose Him

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Never Say This To A Man Unless You Want To Lose Him
Sometimes we say what we don’t really mean in order to find out how a guy really feels.

Now, ironically, when the woman is the leader, she must NEVER say to the man, "I think maybe we should break up."

Why? Because what he'll hear is:

— "I'm not happy.

— You're not making me happy.

— What would make me happy is if we broke up."

And, wanting to make her happy, he'll shrug his shoulders and say, "Okay."

You see, when the woman is the leader, she's the one fighting for the relationship. She's the one taking the ball down the field — not the man! He follows HER LEAD. He doesn't direct the relationship.

So, when she gives the cue that they should break up, he can't argue. And if he does initially, he won't for long.

Now, I've seen couples be happy with this "role-reversal" situation if they have other extra special connections between them, and if they know what's going on…

All it takes is finding out the UNIQUE astrological influences in your chart (and a certain someone). Once you know that, you also both need to know how to do relationships right. Otherwise your romance is doomed to fail, no matter what the stars say.
But do yourself a favor — don't ever let your insecurity make you say those dreaded words: "I think maybe we should break up…" unless you mean it! You may be blowing it with the right man for you.

You can learn more about how to use the astrology of ancient India combined with tried—and—true relationship skills to claim the love you were born to have here:
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