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4 Ways We Should All Aspire To Be More Like Porn Stars

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4 Ways We Should All Aspire To Be More Like Porn Stars [EXPERT]
Even grandma can learn a thing or two.
As it happens, you can learn a lot from the world's most unlikely role models.

Lesson #3: Show and tell. Porn stars seem to know exactly what to say and how to say it. If they want something done right, they'll show you how to please them. Whatever it is that they want or need to make the experience more pleasurable is what they will openly communicate. This is a great lesson to learn when your partner is just learning how to please you. Don't be shy to guide them or play a little "show and tell" so everyone is happy.

Lesson #4: Exploring sexual fantasies and fetishes are a turn-on. What would porn be without the naughty little school girl, the hot and sweaty pool boy, the misbehaved student and teacher, the sensual masseuse or overtly curious doctor? Pornos seem to highlight and play out the mental and stereotypical sexual scenarios that men and women talk about and fantasize most.

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Whether you are the cougar about to prey on an unassuming cub, or the MILF who has invited little Johnny over to help with his homework, you can have just as much fun at home role-playing your favorite fantasies!

If millions of people every day turn to porn for sexual stimulation and tips, we should learn a thing or two from these "sexperts" in order to have more fulfilling, pleasurable and erotic experiences with our partners.

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