After many people go through a break-up, many spend time on working through the experience and learning about the "mistakes" that were made from their break-up. It is recommended by many professionals, to take some time to heal and recover from a break up and deal with any hurt or negative feelings before moving on. By the time a guy has figured out what went wrong in the relationship, it's often already too late. Many men shared with me, that the next time around, they won't make the same mistakes. These men are better communicators and they express their emotions more openly. These men will TRY not to take their partner for granted, and be more attentive to their partners needs. And they will also be true to themselves, and not allow their needs not to be met, so their partner also knows how to love and appreciate them best.
So ladies, the most important thing to know about dating a divorced guy, is that it can be just as wonderful and successful as you choosing to date a man who has never been married; if YOU are willing not to judge him, be intimated by his ex or children, and also treat this new relationship with an open, positive and caring attitude.