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Jesse James' Ex Says Daughter Loves Sandra Bullock

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Jesse James' first wife wants Sandra Bullock to stay involved in her daughter Sunny's life.

You know how the CelebLove staff starts every Jesse James-related post by saying how much we absolutely love Sandra Bullock? We're not alone in this sentiment.

Apparently Janine James, Jesse's ex-wife, is a huge fan of Sandra, and especially appreciates the bond that the Oscar-winning actress has with her daughter, Sunny. Janine told TMZ, "Sunny loves Sandy and vice versa. She's welcome to be a part of every aspect of Sunny's life."

So Sandra Bullock turns out to be a much more stable, beneficial influence for the child than the girl's actual biological father. Sad, but true.  Jesse James Even Worse Than We Knew

Now the question becomes, Will Ms. Bullock take advantage of the offer?

It's a tough call, really. After all, the child shouldn't be hurt and punished just because her father is a manwh*re with some serious skeletons in his closet who doesn't recognize how good he had it. Then again, why should Sandy be so generous with her time and attention when she's clearly a busy woman who has better things to do than make Jesse James' life even half an ounce easier for him? Wouldn't it be painful to stay a part of someone's life when they serve as a constant reminder of a relationship ruined by scandal and the painful and embarrassing public breakup? Perhaps Bullock could use Sunny as a pawn in some sort of twisted revenge where Sandy convinces Sunny to hate her father and make his life miserable, but we doubt she'd do something so evil and conniving. She's Miss Congeniality, remember?

If Bullock's behavior during the scandal tells us anything, we know she'll handle this situation with grace and dignity.

Photo via Bauer-Griffin.