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Carin Goldstein (LMFT,MFT)

Counselor/Therapist, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage Educator, Relationship Coach

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Phone: 3102267064

Fax: CarinGoldstein

14724 Ventura Blvd., suite 1100

Sherman Oaks, CA Show on map

Articles

5 Steps To A Happier Relationship [EXPERT]

Relationships and marriage take more work than we ever imagined. They challenge us to look at our own foibles, fears, and personal struggles deep within. I have seen people push through intense pain and disappointment in their marriage and come out on the ...

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6 Signs You're Married To A Bully [EXPERT]

I know a lot of women whose husbands' alpha male wiring goes to a whole other level. Unfortunately, many of these wives are in denial of their husband's behavior because, for whatever reason, they don't want to confront ...

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10 Things Every Woman Needs For A Well-Balanced Life [EXPERT]

May 13 through May 19 marks National Women's Health Week. And although today's woman has more information than ever about how to live a happy, healthy life, frankly, it can be a little overwhelming to try and keep track of it all. Naturally, too much information makes us feel confused, overwhelmed, and ...

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When "too nice" becomes "not smart"

No. I’m not saying become a bra burning, feminist raging, dragon lady to your husband. What I’m talking about is not always walking on egg shells to make sure that the timing, the words, the tone, the “feelings” (yes some of you tragically edit your feelings) are always PERFECT for ...

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Parents: The Top 10 List For Creating Healthy Kids

Children are sponges. As cliché as it may sound, there isn’t a better visual metaphor. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and as a parent of two children, it is my opinion that today’s society is still in need of educating parents about the profound necessity for secure attachments ...

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  • I think that this is a very individual decision based on everyone's situation being different. For some couples it can be a slam dunk move and makes perfect sense because both people feel secure in the relationship and are on the same page as far as expectations. For some couples, it can be a premature move especially when one or both people are having reservations about their commitment to each other. SEE MORE

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  • "Time" in general is so nebulous. Your girlfriend sounds confused about what her emotions are really about and if in fact she really wants to be in a relationship. As painful as this feels for you, one of the best things you might do is simply give her space. I know: easier said than done. But right now, you need to think of your own self care. And allowing yourself to be too available and vulnerable to her when she is clearly creating a distance (at least for now) will only make it more difficult for you. If being in a relationship with you is what she ultimately wants, then she'll come around on her own. Right now, I would really encourage you to simply take care of you. SEE MORE

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Carin Goldstein

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Anxiety Issues

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues

Depression

Family Therapy

Stress Management

Credentials:

LMFT, MFT

Time in Practice:

10 years +

I practice in:

My state/province only

I offer my services:

At my office

Telephone

By Email

I am fluent in:

English

Licence information:

Expiration 11/30/12
Number MFC42158

Articles by Carin Goldstein
5 Steps To A Happier Relationship [EXPERT]

5 Steps To A Happier Relationship [EXPERT]

Simple tips to help you and your partner feel happier and more connected with one another!

6 Signs You're Married To A Bully [EXPERT]

6 Signs You're Married To A Bully [EXPERT]

Does your husband take his temper too far? Here's how to tell.

10 Things Every Woman Needs For A Well-Balanced Life [EXPERT]

10 Things Every Woman Needs For A Well-Balanced Life [EXPERT]

In honor of National Women's Health Week, find the balance your busy life demands.

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When "too nice" becomes "not smart"

Why walking on eggshells in how your communicate with your spouse isn't always a smart strategy.

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Parents: The Top 10 List For Creating Healthy Kids

10 tips to create kids with healthy attachment and secure bonding with their parents.

Carin Goldstein

All Specialties

Addiction, Anxiety Issues, Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Depression, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Employment Stress/Growth, Family Therapy, Financial Stress, Life Management, Parenting, Sex Therapy, Stress Management, Wellness

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