Do You Feel Like Having An Orgasm Is Next To Impossible?


Do You Feel Like Having An Orgasm Is Next To Impossible?

2. Experiment. Have some experimental playtime with your partner or alone. Way too often we head into the game without much practice, expecting to come out with a win. Slow down and have fun prepping. Get to know your body and what feels good to you. Let your partner memorize all your curves, every crease, and how you like to be touched. Crazy thing is many women don’t even know what they like! Then they get frustrated with their man for not knowing how to please them. Invite him to practice! He won’t mind ... in fact, I bet he will be a willing participant!

3. Assistance. Sometimes we just need a little help. Make sure it’s something beautifully packaged and healthy for your body. I recommend Sex Butter, an all-natural sexual enhancement lubrication product made with organic, healthy ingredients that has the extra benefit of healing negative messages of the past. It’s amazing for couples and individuals who choose to use it for self-pleasuring for a more open and intimate experience.


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4. The part you must do alone. A man can only love you as much as you love yourself. Other people cannot fill us with love. Romantic partners are there to catch all the love that pours out from us. All that being said, there are some things we must do on our own.*

Your job is to fall madly and deeply in love with yourself. From the inside out, start to praise who you are, pamper and adore the skin you are in. Kiss your own hands, caress your own curves, and shower yourself with love. The more connected you are to your own body, the more connected you will feel to yourself and your partner. The more connected to your partner you feel, the more you will open up to intimacy.

*Falling in love with yourself and your body is not easy. If you need and desire help, please visit


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