Bring More Heart Into Your Sex Life!

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3 powerful approaches and 17 potent phrases to help you and your lover open your hearts in bed.
  • "I treasure your wild, imaginative mind...especially when we make love."
  • "I've never had a lover who was so attuned to my body. You really have a special sensitivity that I adore."
  • "Nobody does it better. Baby, you're the best!" (Yes, it's fine to use a song lyric if it genuinely expresses what you're feeling!)

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Sensual Nurturing
Using nurturing words with a sensual vibe can be a highly effective way to help your partner overcome a particularly stressful day or a bout of the blues. Or, such words can be used to help you communicate your needs for warmth and tenderness. And such expressions of gentle care combined with nourishing touch can work wonders to help you both open your hearts while stirring your libido.

 

For instance, while caressing or massaging your lover you might say:

  • "Just breathe into the warmth of my hands and let me take care of you." Or,
  • "Honey, just let go right there and enjoy my touch!"

Or if you'd like to find out the most effective way of meeting your lover's needs, you might ask:

  • "What parts of your body most long for my loving attention right now?"
  • Or, more playfully, "Tell me where it hurts, love. Dr _______ (your name) is here to make it all better."

Or, if requesting nurturing care, you might say:

  • "Baby, I really need you to hold me and slowly stroke my back right now."
  • "I'd so love to feel your hands gently caressing my body." Dirty Talk Dos and Don'ts

Another way to increase the flow of heart energy between you and your partner is to look in their eyes and connect with the innocent child deep within them. You can then say:

  • "I see a flicker of 'girlish' ('boyish') innocence in your eyes, that I find so endearing."

If some of these words and phrases resonate with you, that's great. But if they're not in perfect alignment with your thoughts and feelings, then use them as a catalyst to help you find those words most expressive of what's truly in your heart.

And, If you'd like a multitude of other ideas on appreciative and nurturing words and phrases to use with your lover, then check out The Fine Art of Erotic Talk (Random House) and Your Daily Verbal Aphrodisiac.

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