Bobbi Palmer, Dating Coach

Bobbi Palmer - Dating Coach, Author, Life Coach, Marriage Educator, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Long Beach, CA
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Are you a single woman over 40, scared you’ll be alone forever and losing hope of ever meeting your special man? I know how you feel because I was there...until I became a first-time ...

Articles

How To Talk To Men

Not only is it okay to talk about yourself to men, but it is essential to getting first dates and future dates. When I tell women that it's good to talk about themselves, it's generally met with complete shock. But don't guys love it when we let them do all the talking? Well, yes. Who doesn't ...

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How to Be a Powerful, Feminine Woman

Want to attract a confident, grounded man who will enhance your already great life? The best way to do it is to act like a lady. Yes, that age-old scenario is still true: masculine men are attracted to feminine women. Men want to know that they're contributing to our lives. When a man cares about you, ...

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Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him?

I learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside. Did you know that? I’m 52 years old, and for my entire life I’ve been doing it wrong. No wonder it was always a struggle! I was never able to ...

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Nine Tips to Create a Better Date within Ten Minutes

The first ten minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is ever going to happen, and let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste." Date waste is when a date is a drag but has little to do ...

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Why Every Single Woman Should Use a Vibrator

Masturbation. There…I said it. The "Big M." I don't generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the time has come to chat about the role sex – or lack thereof – plays in the life of a woman in her later years who is single and looking for love. There are many ...

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MY RECENT COMMENTS

Success Stories

Karen is dating at 63, having fun and getting results!

WOW Bobbi…..what a difference you have made in the way I think about men and myself. I love your kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time you have moved me along from being scared to having fun dating.

I know your goal for me was to actually be asked out on a second date and give the guy a chance. Well today I had my third date and because of you and I was not scared. You gave me the words and encouragement to let him know how I felt and it worked like a charm. We both smiled and said “we got through that”. This man is quality and you showed me that before I started running scared.

I hope other ladies in their 40s, 50s and 60s that want a relationship, but are just scared and lonely, find you and invest in their future. I look forward to continue working with you because each session we have I learn more about me and that I am worthy of being in a FABULOUS relationship.



I thank you Bobbi from the bottom of my heart. You have given me hope and results.

Love

Karen, 63

 

37 year old divorced mom finds love after years of not dating

Hi Bobbi!

I just wanted to give you an update on my relationship with J. Our 1-year anniversary is coming up in April & he has expressed his love for me & asked me to move in with him! I told him I’d love to share my life with him too, but that I could only live if we were married. I told him I absolutely want to be married again & asked him if he did as well & he said, “Yes!”.

Not a formal proposal yet, but it’s going in the (slow) direction I want it to go.

I definitely would not be where I am today, without your guidance & support! It's incredible what you've helped me to manifest!

Thanks for being there!

Love,

Rebecca

 

Debbie, Age 53, finds love after 2 divorces and 6 years single

Here is a letter I received from a client after 3 months of private coaching:

I have found a very special man. He is so thoughtful and nice. It is getting harder and harder to be away from him. He has been very understanding of my long hours but I make sure when we are together that he knows that he is very important to me.

Thank you again for all of the help you have given to me. I guess you were right - I was ready for a great guy in my life. I even told him this morning that I wouldn't have been ready for him right now if I hadn't done the work necessary to figure out who I was and what I truly deserved.

I have discussed you with him and he is so supportive. He has done some work on himself over the years so appreciates that I have worked on the things necessary to be in a great relationship and recognize it. Who would have thought haha!!

Just wanted to let you know that all is well and the love just continues to grow. You are great! Thanks, Thanks, Thanks!

Love,

Debbie

 

Confused ex-CEO becomes Confident Happy Dater

 

“Okay girls, I’ll be direct….I think Bobbi is one of the best kept secrets on the planet!  She has this amazingly magical way of kindly hitting me square between the eyes with the confidence I need to understand the “real truth" about men and about myself.  This usually happens when I am spiraling down my merry little path of destruction where I am thinking and analyzing way too much; and it's usually negative...and wrong! 

 

The poor man I am interested in never even has a chance because I am already 2 miles down the road before he can even take a breath!  Yup admittedly, I am doing this all out of FEAR of gawd knows what!   You know the Dr. Phil line “How’s it working for you so far?” Not very well; so enter Bobbi into my life.  



I started working with Bobbi 2 months ago because I really wanted to learn the secrets of dating effectively. It’s been a fascinating experience; I've learned things like why it's so important that Iearn to take compliments. She's taught me how to have compassion for men, and guided me on what to share, how, and when. And so, so much more.

 

I’ve been married before, a CEO of a company and a VP for many large multinational companies…and could I figure this out?  Nope.  Bobbi has helped me to understand what works and doesn’t work with men, and she has given me the awareness tools around my confidence, femininity, and kindness needed to interrelate with men on an intimate level, and for all my relationships for that matter. 

 

I have “Ah-hah’s” every time I talk with Bobbi and then I actually go out and try what she says and it works with men!  It gives me a sense of calm and makes me smile inside.  I had no idea about the subliminal messaging I was sending out!  

 

Well the mojo has shifted thanks to Bobbi and now I am down my merry path of dating and selecting the man who actually fits.  Bobbi’s expert and compassionate coaching, sense of humor, and hands on experience has really helped me to navigate what I am truly looking for in a man, and not be afraid to go get it.  This is one of the best investments I have ever made!

-Diana

Main SpecialtyCommunication Problems
Dating/Being Single Support
Empowering Women
Wellness
CredentialsOther
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Life Coach
Marriage Educator
Relationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Via Skype
Via a webcam
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Laws of the Jungle: Dating For Women Over 40

How many frogs does a woman have to kiss before she finds a ...

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Making Sense of Men: A Woman's Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men

Step into the world of Alison Armstrong, where love, care and ...

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In Sync with the Opposite Sex: Understand the Conflicts. End the Confusion. Make the Right Choices.

In Sync with the Opposite Sex: Understand the Conflicts. End the ...

USD $75.32

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Keys to the Kingdom

Los Angeles—For five hundred years, the women in Claudia Lambert’s ...

USD $14.47

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Main SpecialtyCommunication Problems
Dating/Being Single Support
Empowering Women
Wellness
CredentialsOther
Time in Practice6-10 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Life Coach
Marriage Educator
Relationship Coach
Speaker/Presenter
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
Telephone
By Email
Via Skype
Via a webcam
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Laws of the Jungle: Dating For Women Over 40

How many frogs does a woman have to kiss before she finds a ...

USD $17.04

Buy online

Making Sense of Men: A Woman's Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men

Step into the world of Alison Armstrong, where love, care and ...

USD $17.74

Buy online

In Sync with the Opposite Sex: Understand the Conflicts. End the Confusion. Make the Right Choices.

In Sync with the Opposite Sex: Understand the Conflicts. End the ...

USD $75.32

Buy online

Keys to the Kingdom

Los Angeles—For five hundred years, the women in Claudia Lambert’s ...

USD $14.47

Buy online