You've been seeing him for a little while. It's somewhat regular. You think he could be The One. But you have no idea what he's thinking. Is he into you? Is he looking for a wife or a lifetime commitment? You really want to ask but you know you shouldn't... or should you?
And what about if he asks you and you're not ready to answer? What do you do then?
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In this video I give you the exact words to use to ask and answer this question in a grownup way that generates honest, productive conversation. Let me know your thoughts. Would this have helped you in the past or is it something you can use with the man you're currently seeing?
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