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 [Video] Dating New Men: How to Tell Him the Scary Stuff

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Ungrateful children. Mortgage that’s killin’ you. Surgical scars. Chronic health problems…these are all realities of life after 40. Let’s face it: we’ve been around a while. We have “stuff!”

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When you’re dating it’s important to share it at the right time in the right way. Say it wrong or tell him too early or too late, and you may scare away a good man.

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Here are my tips to help you share your baggage in an easy way that’s honest, direct AND sets you up to get the best result. (And, hey, that could be him leaving, and that would be ok!) Tell me your challenges and I’m glad to help. What experiences have you had with sharing YOUR stuff?

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The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40 and founder of Date LIke a Grownup.
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Location: Long Beach, CA
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Specialties: Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Empowering Women, Wellness
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