Are you dressing like the pretty woman you are, letting light conversation flow and just enjoying the moment and feeling each other’s energy? Or are you trying to control the conversation, interrogate him and impress him (or test him) with your independence and brilliance?
If you do what I suggest, you’ll have time to show how smart and talented you are; because there’s a good chance he’ll ask you out on a date.
It’s simple: masculine is attracted to feminine. That’s just how it is. So chill, knock off the scary overly controlling stuff and have some fun being a girl. As a result, I guarantee you’ll get more dates and have more fun dating.