One last note: Remember that if he doesn't go for your attempts, he probably knows something you don't about why you're not a good match. (He's married, gay, not looking for a nice girl, is mad at women, etc.)
Don't get discouraged. You'll rack up dating karma points if you make him feel good about himself, and you'll find it easier to do the next time you try. And who knows? That time the guy may be your perfect match!
Bobbi Palmer is The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40. At 47 she became a first-time bride and now shares her successes - and mistakes - to help other women over 40 find love. Read her blog and get her free e-Course "The 7 Major Dating Mistakes Women over 40 Make in Their Search for Love."