I know, because I did this work myself. It took some serious work for me to get past my "Men Are" nonsense. This was stuff I had believed since junior high school. And when I exorcised those demons, all of the sudden I saw good men all around me.
Eventually the One was right in front of me. The old me would have scared him away. The new me attracted him like a magnet. Score!
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Thankfully, the vast majority of you rockin’ ladies take your lumps in life graciously. You’ve had your share of disappointments and hurt with men, but you don’t hang on like The Bitter Woman. You know it’s okay to get pissed off, vent for a while, and have a pity party.
Eventually, though, you move on with hope, determination and an open heart. That is the way to find meaningful and lasting love – and peace of mind.
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I know this is possible for you: a devoted man, a peaceful heart, and some sweetness in your life every day.