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Musings On What I Learned From My Ex Husband

Love, Heartbreak

It's a Saturday night and I'd be really interested in hearing what you learned from your Ex mate

Honesty is the foundation of a relationship
You can love someone even when they are being an ass
You can want to be with someone even if you know that it is not in your best interests
Someone can say they love you and still lie, cheat, and steal
You are responsible for how you respond to crappy behavior
Right when you think everything is peachy, people leave
Accept that you will never truly know someone
When someone shows you who they are believe them and act accordingly
You can love a bad person
It is up to you to feel and hear the truth
Stand up for your hopes and dreams, if someone loves you they will too
Remember you are worth love and worth being treated with respect

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