At times, we act and speak in ways that were modeled for us or from a place that is automatic (without thinking first). We rarely stop and question the things that we say to our kids, or even consider whether we believe them ourselves. If we want to give our children the best foundation for a rich satisfying life, we need to create more awareness around this.
We all want what's best for our kids. We want to be the best parents we can be, so that they can become the best they can be. What we know deep down in our heart of hearts is that our children don't need to do or be anything to make us love them, guide them, or want the best for them. They need only be themselves and be happy. Our kids are already GOOD. And they know that, until we tell them they're not.