Expert: 98 Tips For Dating, Kissing, Love And Sex

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18. I just had new shocks put on my car.  Care to help me test them?

19. Hi, I'm Mr. Right.  Someone said you were looking for me.

 

If good looks were against the law you'd be arrested, booked, and jailed for life.

Weren't you in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue?

Didn't I see you on the cover of GQ magazine?

I finally met a girl I can take home to mom.  So what are you doing Sunday?

The world is coming to an end.  Have dinner with me.

My dog would like to meet your dog, but she's very shy.

I'm doing a poll on where single people like to go.  Can you help me?

You look familiar.  Did we meet at Club Med last year?

Hi, can we pretend that I used some line that worked really well and move on to the next stage?

You look like the kind of person I would really like to get to know better.

Can I have your autograph?  I'm your biggest fan

Remember to say something.  Anything is better than nothing!  Start by commenting on the other person or the environment, then sustain the conversation by asking questions and close by getting their number.

First Date Caution:
Caution is essential on a first date, especially if you got your date through the personals.  It's a good idea to take your own car—you can leave whenever you want and stay only as long as you want.A lot of date rapes are induced by drugs and alcohol, so the obvious steps to take are to be very careful not to drink too much or accept any kind of pills from anyone accept your doctor.

If you have had a previous abusive relationship, do not confide in a new date.  By letting them know that you allowed someone to abuse you, you are in essence telling them that they can do the same thing and they won't respect you as much.  Trust is something that has to be earned so don't trust everyone you come in contact with because they might just use your weaknesses against you.

  1. Build anticipation by kissing all around your lover's face.
  2. Trace the outline of your lover's lips with the tip of your tongue.
  3. Begin your kiss slowly and gently with emotion and sensitivity.
  4. Kiss without using your tongue, slightly open mouthed, with sweet breath.
  5. Take your lover's bottom lip between the two of yours and suck gently.
  6. While kissing, lick you lover's teeth with your tongue.
  7. To increase sexual excitement, make your kiss wet.
  8. Wrap you're your lips around your lover's tongue and suck passionately.
  9. Follow your lover's kissing techniques and emulate them.
  10. Use hot or cold liquids to create erotic sensations.

The Best Way To Set The Mood For Love—Stimulate all five senses:

  1. Hearing: music and love-talk before, during, and after.
  2. Smell: flowers, incense, and favorite perfume or cologne.
  3. Sight: pretend someone special will be staying in your bedroom, add ornaments and candles, (a candle can turn a plain room into a romantic one).
  4. Touch: oils, lotions, powder, satin sheets, and lingerie.
  5. Taste: order in a gourmet dinner or buy favorite snacks and drinks (never make love on an empty stomach)
Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Ava Cadell

Counselor/Therapist

Live to Love ~Dr. Ava Cadell

Personal Website: http://www.AvaCadell.com

Founder of Lovelogy University: http://www.LoveologyUniversity.com

My blog: htto://www.DrAvaBlog.com

Location: West Hollywood, CA
Credentials: EdD, PhD
Specialties: Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Sex Therapy
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