Dating Tips by Dr. Ava Cadell

A single flower or some chocolates will let her know that you were thinking about her.

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SLOWER IS BETTER

* Every man should learn to give his lover a sensual massage.
* Take time to discover her erogenous zones from her toes to the top of her head and ask her to rate your caresses and kisses from 1 to 10.
* Use ice, whipped cream, or strawberry jam for foreplay.
* Build sexual anticipation and always wait to have your orgasm last.

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LET YOUR LOVER KNOW HE/SHE’S MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE

* Make them breakfast in bed.
* Write love letters.
* Ask for his/her wish list.
* Give lots of compliments.
* Go on romantic walks.
* Surprise him/her with a picnic.
* Always kiss goodbye and give a big welcome home.
* Kiss at unexpected times in unexpected places.
* Tell him/her what you love about them the most.
* Phone in the middle of the day just because.
* Take him/her on a fantasy date once a week.
* Record a message of love and leave it where it can be found.

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SEX TIPS

* Always urinate after sex to prevent infections.
* Don’t say “I love you” during sex unless you mean it.
* To intensify your orgasms, change your regular sex position.
* Gargle with mouthwash before oral sex. It provides a tingling sensation for your lover.
* Never compare penis or breast size with your lover. It reminds them that you’re thinking of another lover.
* Discuss sexual fears as well as pleasures with your lover.
* Use a lubricant before you need it, to prevent soreness.
* Arouse your lover by licking their eyelids.
* Always use water-based lubricants. (Oil or petroleum-based ones can destroy latex)
* Try latex gloves for finger penetration, especially if you have cuts or abrasions. (gloves will offer a new form of stimulation)
* Don’t forget to put a condom on a sex toy that will be used by more than one person.
* Change condoms when going from the anus to the vagina.
* Don’t leave a hickey high on your lover’s neck, or some other noticeable place, unless they ask you to.
* Don’t place anything used for anal play into a woman’s vagina before cleaning it thoroughly, including your finger.
* Never discuss past lovers with your current partner, unless they ask you to.
* Never let someone tie you up unless you know them well and trust them.
* Never criticize your lover’s mother.
* Never leave the wet spot on your lover’s side.
* Don’t take it personally if your lover doesn’t climax every time.
* Never talk about your daily problems during love-making.
* Don’t send flowers and think everything is OK without communicating with your lover.
* Never seal your mouth over a woman’s vagina and blow air into it when she’s pregnant. It could cause an air embolism and be fatal.
* Don’t argue, insult or criticize your lover in front of friends, family, or in public.
* Be careful about placing food inside a woman’s vagina, especially sugary foods. They can cause infections.
* Don’t use nylon stockings to tie up your lover because they are difficult to untie.
* Keep your eyes open during love-making and watch your lovers face for a different sensation.
* Never argue with your lover before you go to sleep.
* Don’t forget to cuddle after sex.
* Lack of sexual desire is mainly caused by stress and overworking.
* Don’t forget to return your lover’s phone calls without delay; it shows you care