How your date ends can also be a sign that he is interested. If neither one of you want to bring the date to a close, chances are that he is very interested in seeing you again. If he utters, “ Are you sure you have to go?” this is your que that he is seeking to extend the evening. If possible, stay a little while longer. This will let him know that you too do not want the night to end. It’s a subtle boost to his ego and men love that. If at anytime during the evening you feel rushed, he is nonverbally saying that he is not that interested and he wants the date to end.
This last sign can be the clincher to you that he is interested in you. This is what I call the “Follow-Up”. If he contacts you the next day (to hell with that 48hour rule guys use) and reiterates how much he enjoyed the date you are in like Flynn. If you get a call and he says, “ I have been thinking about you constantly since we said goodnight” it’s on like Donkey Kong.
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Congratulations! You have not only survived the first date but you want more and more importantly, so does he. These signs aren’t full proof but they are very good indicators that he too is interested in the wonderful you that you are.
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