Let's stop the constant and internal second-guessing of ourselves once and for all. Approach your current relationship (this includes dating) with the confidence that you are capable. You know or have a vision of who you are, what it is that you want and a plan on how to get it. Only then can you truly develop your own sense of personal "enoughness." Don't let anyone or anything define what it is that you need to look like, dress like or act like. This decision is solely up to you.
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This article was not written to absolve you of any personal responsibility to improving who you are. Keep improving yourself through exercise, diet and personal growth. No one likes an unenlightened, know-it-all slob.
This was written to show you that ultimately we women are each individually responsible for how we are viewed by society. This disclaimer was placed at the end of this article because I wanted to get the full impact and not develop "elephant ears" and tune out any part of this article.
I truly believe all of the words that I have shared with you. I live by these words daily. "Enoughness" is a conscious choice, a belief that comes from within. Remember, "If you can't see it, you can never be it!"
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