- Let go of the need to “know” –as human beings we are always striving for certainty. We want life to appear in clear, black and white terms so we can make our plans and move on with our lives. Manifesting requires that we first let go of our need to know when and how our beloved will appear and to begin to trust that our desires are being fulfilled even though we can’t yet see the proof.
- Give up the “should” thoughts as in “my soulmate should already be here with me” or “I should be doing something more to make love happen.” The path to successful manifestation involves having a clarity of desire (intention), trust and belief that what you have asked for is already yours, and taking appropriate action steps that feel good to you. Remember that Divine Timing plays a big role.
- Focus on questions, not answers, such as “what gifts do I bring to my relationship with my soulmate?” and “what traits and qualities will my soulmate possess that will contribute to my long-term happiness?”
- Trust your gut and listen to your inner voice – does the thought of online dating delight you or make you queasy? Let your inner knowing guide you to the actions steps that are right for you and don’t be pressured by friends and family who insist you do it “their way.”
About Arielle Ford
Arielle knows that finding true love is possible for anyone, at any age, and she points to herself as living proof. Married for the first time at age 44, she expanded on the set of skills that she used to launch her highly successful Public Relations firm, The Ford Group, and applied them to her love life. She is the author of the international bestselling book The Soulmate Secret: How To Manifest The Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Arielle lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Learn more about Arielle at www.arielleford.com and www.soulmatesecret.com
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