1. Proactively create dating opportunities by asking friends to fix you up. If your friends are married, get to know other single women, so you can share common experiences.
2. Try new activities, especially those that attract men. Forget about the knitting club or cooking classes. Instead, learn to ballroom dance, play golf or tennis, or participate in financial planning networking.
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3. Rather than focusing on your friends 100% of the time when you're out, let then know you plan to take a few minutes out to flirt with new men.
4. No one is born knowing how to use online dating sites, yet one-fifth of all new relationships start online. The more you know, the better your chances of success. If you want personalized help, sign up for an Online Dating Makeover.
Once these twelve steps become habit, you'll find that you're confidently navigating the dating road that leads to love.
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