Anne Stirling Hastings - Psychologist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Life Coach, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Sex Therapist, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Camarillo, CA
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Anne Stirling Hastings (PhD)

Psychologist

Articles

Healing Avoidant Attachment Style of Loving

Below is an excerpt from my novel coming soon on the healing of Avoidant Attachment. My book on Kindle, Create New ...

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It's Not Sex: What Men Are Really Looking For On Cheating Sites

As a psychologist specializing in sexuality and relationships, I went on the "cheating" dating site Ashley Madison while gathering information for my eBook on online dating. What an education! Starting 12 years ago, this website kicked off a boom of dating ...

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Addiction To Love And Romance: When He Didn't Call

Please join me for Transformational Fiction, stories and novels in which I walk characters through all of these difficult love relationship and sexual issues. Only these characters learn to ...

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Surrogate Spouse: When Your Parent Loved You Too Much

Below is a sample from one of my novels about healing sexuality offered in the Transformational Fiction style. Grace explores being a “surrogate spouse” from her childhood. Join me at my website for free stories and chapters about all kinds of sexual violation and healing. Get on my mailing list to ...

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The Goddess-Whore Split - Why Men Are Confused

Below is an excerpt from my novel, Dirty Sex or Clean Sex. Richard finally talks with a friend about how he seduces a woman and then doesn’t call again. “Do you have any negative feelings about your wife’s body, George? I’m sorry to ...

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Anne Stirling Hastings

Quick Stats

Credentials:

PhD

Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Divorce Recovery Coach

Life Coach

Marriage and Family Therapist

Marriage/Couples Counselor

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach

Sex Educator

Sex Therapist

Speaker/Presenter

YourTango Expert Partner

I offer my services:

At my office

Telephone

Via Skype

Other, please inquire

I am fluent in:

English

Licence information:

Expiration 3/30/16
Number psy21365

Articles by Anne Stirling Hastings
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Healing Avoidant Attachment Style of Loving

Letting go of Loneliness, Separation, Isolation, and Shame that accompany the avoidant style

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It's Not Sex: What Men Are Really Looking For On Cheating Sites

A psychologist goes on a cheating site — and here's what she discovered.

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Addiction To Love And Romance: When He Didn't Call

They finally have sex. SHE: It's love! HE: She wants too much. SHE: That's just the way men are.

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Surrogate Spouse: When Your Parent Loved You Too Much

When marriages are troubled sometimes parents turn to their children as special – too special

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The Goddess-Whore Split - Why Men Are Confused

Does he see you as innocent, a goddess, a good girl? Or as slut, whore, bad girl? Or Both?

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Bring Love and Sex Together: The Value of Healing Sexual Shame, A Novel
Grace is fascinated by her explorations of her ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings
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Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised
Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings Ph. D
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Create New Love: How Men and Women can Prepare for a Lasting Relationship
If you have gone from relationship to ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings
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Healing Humanity: Life Without Shame

Anne Stirling Hastings

All Specialties

Abuse / Survivors of Abuse, Addiction, Attachment Issues, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Men, Empowering Women, Emptiness, Engagement, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Management, Marriage, Matchmaking, Men's Issues, Online Dating, Self-Esteem, Sex Addiction, Sexuality