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Why Giving Him A Blow Job Turns YOU On


It's more than giving him a mind blowing orgasm, you get turned on too. Here's the scientific scoop.

Can a woman get turned on while she is giving head?  Have you ever had an orgasm during a blow job?  Yes ladies, science explains how going down on your man is a pleasure party for you. (Guys, learn this and she will want you in every way.)

Turns out your mouth is a most sensitive sexual organ. Your beautiful lips are teeming with nerve endings — 100 times more than the fingertips.  Stroking and massaging him with your lips will drive him mad, of course.  But it will also set you on fire.

When kissing lip to lip or lip to dick, those fabulous nerve endings flip the switch to "multiple mechanisms in the brain, releasing chemicals that lower stress and boost mood," says Dr Arun Ghosh, expert in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital.

In a study on women's orgasm, (I wonder how you can volunteer for that job!) scientists from Rutgers University, New Jersey, used scans to monitor women’s brains during sex. 30 very happy different parts of the brain are activated.

Those busy nerve endings in your luscious lips flip the switch to your own pleasure as you pleasure him.  Your brain is designed to turn on the pleasure hormones that prepare your body for orgasm.

If you are new to oral sex and a bit intimidated, you are not alone.  I just want to assure you that you will really enjoy it when you are with the right man, at the right time.  Oh, by the way…you might want to show your guy this article and then whisper in his ear...

"Let's do a science experiment.  Let's see what happens with a little kissing and making out…lip to lip."  Imagine all those happy nerve endings!  I bet you will end up in a delicious lip lock he will not forget…you either!  Here is a little Cogar Erotica fantasy for your reading pleasure:  So, What Are You Going To Do With That Stubble



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