Cyber sex offers the chance to have a person at the other end of a text window to engage and entertain you for dare I say it….Fun.
Sex for fun's sake.
No agenda. No voices. No names. No relationship. No future or past. Using a made up name you choose from many cyber sites for consenting adults. and anonymously find just about whatever you are looking for.
Now me? I am very discriminating, some would call me a Cougar. I like a man with a slow hand, and curious and bright mind. I like to engage my imagination and create a story line and a character for the man who is texting me.
I have had to politely decline many guys who reached out to my profile but I found just what I was looking for and started having amazing sex on my agenda.
Why should you wait to let yourself enjoy sex until the next man comes along? It feels great to having sex, safely and regularly.
Think of it this way, how much better will you be to move at a slow pace with the next man in your life. A sexually satisfied woman makes better choices with her real time men.
Cyber-sex is not perfect and can't replace physically embracing a loving man. It is fun when it is done right and being sexual is a great antidepressant!
If you want to try the cyber sexting, here are some tips to help you start out….
1. Create an anonymous gmail account for privacy. You will want to be on a password protected site and can use a made up gmail account as your contact. You can have that gmail account forwarded to your regular email so you won't have to check multiple accounts. It can't hurt to look around. There is something for just about every taste out there.
2. Start visiting erotic blogs. Find an author that you enjoy and see if she has a blog you can follow. Keep watering the garden. Your imagination can use a good spring cleaning and all that sexual energy will motivate you in many ways. The internet has a lot more than porn and smut, though there is lots of that out there. Being able to surf the internet at home and find fun, romantic and erotic material for free is great fun. Check out: Angel's Fantasyland
3. Creating the connection: Who do you wish you could be with? If you are having trouble getting aroused when texting with a new play mate, try pretending it is someone you have real time attraction to. is Is it a former lover? A man you can't have though you long to with all your heart? A movie star or rock icon? If you can't be with the one you love, right?