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• there was a time in my life where we were both so busy, that being in a LDR had its benefits and while the time together was very limited (he was overseas), it was focused, quality time. in fact, some of the best conversations we have had were when we were far apart b/c we put more effort into our phone calls and when we were together for wkds, etc., we didn't get as distracted by work and other things as we did when we were together full time. we also went to great lengths to email and stay in close touch - certainly lots more "love letters" than we have otherwise exchanged - so there was a sweetness and a romance that in many ways, made us closer. that said, when he had to leave for the airport on a sunday night, it was absolutely brutal - just heartbreaking to have to say good bye knowing it would be months before we were together again. SEE MORE

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• yes, it is definitely possible to successfully rekindle with an ex. of course it depends on what broke you up in the first place and naturally on how motivated each person is. i have a friend who broke up (broke off an engagement in fact) several months ago and the time away has given both of them invaluable perspective (ie they are truly nuts about each other and don't want to be w/ other people) as well given him the time to sort out some issues with his family. essentially it takes a lot of maturity, a willingness to really listen to the other person, acceptance of the other person as a whole package, and awareness that the relationship is about the "we" (when it is so easy to get focused on the "me") SEE MORE

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• that's very cool - neat to see how much it meant to you and how sensitive you are about this "gift" - definitely shows an admirable level of trust and intimacy. SEE MORE

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• so many ugly truths about dating! one of the worst i can recall from my days is when you KNOW there is a connection and then he disappears. so bewildering. makes you really second guess your judgment and intuition. SEE MORE

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• I asked my now husband to marry me...although to be fair, we had been talking about getting married for a while and had been living together for several years. he was surprised and i believe really pleased that i took the initiative - even if it was completely spontaneous. i knew he'd say yes so there was only upside. good luck! please let us know if you pull the trigger (or if he preempts you!!) SEE MORE

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Indeed! an Incredibly brave...and generous bit of sharing. I am sure there are lots of women (and men!) who can relate to this situation and are grateful to know they are not alone. A shout out to your husband who must be amazing to be ok with your sharing this and for not allowing a challenging sex life to impede your relationship. lucky you to have such an evolved hubbie. Let us know what works for you guys - very eager to hear how things progress.
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ha! love the candor...impressive to see such hidden thoughts voluntary revealed. I wonder what Mel thinks of this post?!
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seems like a very cool guy - cool couple in fact but kinda bums me out that he says he doesn't lie to his wife that often.
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that is a funny weird story! oy! nice use of doppelganger ;)
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