Halloween is the perfect time for expressing your wild side with adventurous role-playing and sexy costumes. It can be a lot of fun for you and your partner to dress up and go out to a party, or just stay home in costume as you hand out candy to the trick-or-treaters. Afterwards, take your role-playing into the bedroom and really spice up the cool October evening. Taking on different characters can add excitement and variety to your relationship, as you have the opportunity to explore your secret fantasies and private fetishes. Top 5 Tricks & Treats Of Dating
Many of us played dress up games as children. Now, as adults, it can be taken to a whole new level and intimately shared with your partner. Role-playing can most certainly add vibrancy to any relationship and infuse passion and adventure into your lovemaking. The act of pretending to be somebody else can be a fun way of self-discovery, as well as to delve into each other's imaginations, dreams and desires. It can also be a wonderful opportunity to exhibit various aspects of yourself that you wouldn't normally dare to display. Feel free to flaunt your freaky side and strut your stuff! It's okay — it's Halloween!
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Couples can receive much pleasure and amusement from taking on a different persona, and watching their partners do so as well. A lot of people fantasize about being with a certain movie character or some other type of iconic figure. By wearing various costumes and/or taking on a different personality, you and your partner can pretend to be someone different for a night. This allows you to play out your fantasies and fetishes we may otherwise tend to suppress. Many people also find that wearing adult costumes and role playing, can provide them with a sense of freedom, allowing them to be anyone or anything they want to be. It can be a form of power play, where couples can give and take control as they desire.
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There are many different adult costumes that you can buy online, in costume stores, at thrift stores or make at home with a little imagination and creativity. Find out what your secret fantasy might be. A sexy nurse? French maid? Dominatrix? Naughty schoolgirl? Be sure to accessorize with a wig, a whip, fishnet stockings or a pair of high-heeled boots. Use whatever props that might help to fully embody the character and feel in the mood for a fun and playful performance. The key to role-playing is to get into character just as if you were playing a part in a movie. How would your character look, sound and behave? Take her attitude, demeanor, as well as her sultry looks and engaging personality. Smooching 101: 3 Easy Steps To Becoming A Better Kisser
There are also many costumes for adult males that you can ask your partner to wear. What turns you on? Captain Jack Sparrow? Rudolph Valentino? A specific super hero or gladiator? Be sure to empower your partner with praise, special attention, and permission to behave in a different way. Guys of all ages usually enjoy this type of provoctive game, as most have fantasized about rescuing Princess Leia in her gold bikini, or what they would command from the I Dream of Jeannie character.