So you’re past the first phases of a relationship. You’ve met the man, or woman, you’re attracted, they like you, you like them, you’ve had some banter back and forth, a few dates, maybe some kissing and touching. You feel ready to take the relationship to the next level. Or maybe you’re in a committed relationship and you’d love to spice things up a little. There is a handy little tool, right in the palm of your hand, which can help you achieve that. And no I’m not talking about the Pocket Rocket; I’m talking about sexting.
Take a deep breath, I’m gonna take it easy on you. We’re not going to go all willy nilly here. You don’t have to give it all away at the gate; sometimes just a little tease is enough to get it going. Gypsy Rose Lee was the queen of burlesque, but she never actually showed anything. Instead, she seductively used the illusion or implication of sexual fulfillment to titillate her audiences. The art of the strip tease is about sensuality, it’s about slow, sexy reveals that heighten eroticism and leave the other wanting more. This is how you should approach sexting. Don’t give it all away at once.
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