3. They stay in their comfort zone. Do you have a series of moves that get you and your partner to orgasm rather consistently? I have one word for you: Bo-ring. The more regimented and predictable your sex life, the less fulfilling it will become. Spice things up. Try new locations, positions, and techniques.
4. They make it all about the money shot. The most satisfying aspects of sex generally take place during foreplay. The longer a relationship lasts, however, the more likely foreplay gets shortened and ignored. How can you pleasure one another without taking off your pants? Get creative.
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