Have The Right Friends:
Often times, women have a habit of condemning each other. This makes your fear of being called "shameless" perfectly reasonable but, this fear is also keeping you from meeting the right guy. If you’re going out with girls that are going to judge you when you want to meet guys, then how do you expect to meet anyone? The only solution is to get rid of these friends, not always, but at least when you’re out trying to meet someone new. Nobody wants to have someone talking behind their backs just because they wanted to meet a decent guy. Also, avoiding the "man hater" friend is also a good idea. She can give men that horrible look that will keep them at a great distance for the entire night.
Don’t make going out all about meeting new guys. If that’s the only thing you’re out there for, you’re going to have a much harder time when it doesn’t happen. Also, going out purely with this mindset might make you come out as needy and desperate, things that you don’t want a guy to think about you. Make the night fun, regardless of what’s going to happen.
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Don’t Be Afraid To Approach:
Even though it may be common sense for the guy to approach you, there’s nothing wrong if you do it. Some men may be great guys, but may have a really hard time approaching women. If you make the first step, trust me, he won’t think you’re easy. He’ll just be happy that you did. He will see you as a confident, fun and social woman that everyone would want to talk to. Hopefully he’ll have the guts to at least continue the conversation once you’ve started it.
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