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How Do Men Fall In Love?

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How Do Men Fall In Love?
Getting a guy to fall helplessly in love with you may be harder than you think.

It may seem harsh and unrealistic that a guy has to DECIDE whether or not he wants to fall in love but, we don’t always rationalize what we are doing – these things are imbedded into us at an instinctual level and the fact that we DENY love early in these phases is only because our defense mechanism prevents us from getting hurt.

Important Note: This is how men fall in love if the women they are after give in to all of their advances. If you want to turn a guy on his head, don’t give in to ALL OF HIS advances, don’t say “I love you” when he wants you to say it, basically turn his world upside down and then you’ll see a man falling helplessly in love, not being able to control his own emotions.

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