When talking to a guy, getting his interest depends on two things: you as a person (something that you can't change so easily) and what you do during the conversation. You see, when a guy is talking to you he's looking for those little hints that show him if you are or aren't interested in dating him as well as general things that might turn him off.
So, this article is going to focus on some simple tips that will make you desirable in a conversation. It's not about changing your whole way of life but more changing the way you interact with any particular guy so that you can create attraction. Finally, know that when using these simple tips you need to already be interested in the guy yourself. There's no point in getting him interested if you aren't interested in him.
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These simple tips will help you stand out from the crowd and give you a better chance at gaining his interest.
1. Smile often. I know this may seem obvious, but unless a guy gets a smile out of you, he'll be more than sure that his advances aren't working. So, if you want to make a guy feel like his doing a good job, giggle at his jokes and smile when you look at him even if there's no particular reason. No guy can resist a girl with a beautiful smile.
2. Be a woman. Men are attracted by women who know how to play the woman role. As women are almost always attracted to chivalrous men, men are attracted to graceful and coy women. Do not misunderstand coy with shy and timid. It's not about that.
Have that female flare about you: Flutter your hair, gaze into his eyes, have your own cute expressions — be feminine. This attracts men more than you can imagine. If you learn to be a lovable lady, any guy will want to become your knight in shining armor.
3. Touch him. In my personal opinion, touching should always be initiated by the man; however, in this day and age, there are a lot of guys that don't know their place in the world. If you want to impress him a lot and I do mean a lot here, so touch him. It's that simple. Studies have actually proven that both men and women involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more when they are touched by the other person in the middle of a conversation.
So, if he isn't touching you (thus showing some interest) touch him yourself! Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you'll see how his interest in you would grow in no time.
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4. Let him be a man. Instinctually men love to protect and provide for their women. When you connect with a man at this level he won't even know why he is attracted to you. You can do this with very simple things like holding his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask if he can hold your shopping bags for a minute, hold his hand as a big scary dog comes near you, be afraid and seek shelter in him when watching a scary movie. Basically make him feel as if he was your protector and he will want to be by your side all the time. Keep reading ...
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